No one wants to be cheated on and for most people, dealing with a cheating spouse is one of the most emotionally painful experiences they could go through. Imagine if you have to live with the uncertainty that your spouse could be cheating on you. It is best to be sure by looking for signs of a cheating spouse and then getting enough proof to give you peace of mind once and for all. Below are some warning signs of a cheating spouse that you should look out for.
Your Spouse Suddenly Wants More Privacy
It is healthy for married people to have interests that they don’t do with their spouse. However, wanting to hide an interest or not wanting the spouse to find out about it is something else. More so when the sudden need for more privacy extends to previously shared things, such as social media passwords and the like. If your partner used to let you use his or her gadgets and you can freely log in to their accounts but they suddenly want privacy now, then keep your eyes peeled for other signs of a cheating spouse. If your partner has always been private, then this could be a non-issue. Watch out too for signs of your spouse hiding money.
Your Spouse Admits to No Longer Being In-Love with You
When a spouse says that the passion is gone, then there is an increased chance that that partner has given up on the relationship and may turn to seek passion somewhere else. This is why a lot of passion-less relationships breed infidelity. When a spouse feels that the marriage is no longer meeting his or her emotional needs, it makes it easier to justify cheating too.
Your Spouse Has Friends That He or She Doesn’t Want to Introduce to You
When this happens, the friend could be someone your spouse is having an affair with, planning to have an affair with, or knows something that your spouse wants to hide from you. There are other possible reasons but hiding other relationships, even only as ‘friends’, is a huge warning sign.
Requesting More Time Alone
While it is normal for someone to have hobbies and interests outside the family sphere, spending an unhealthy amount of time in a new interest could be a sign of a cheating spouse. This is especially true if your partner says the alone time is for sorting out his or her feelings.
Change in Habits and Schedule
Some types of work may become more demanding during certain periods but if the other signs of a cheating spouse are present and your spouse suddenly begins to spend more time at work or have excuses to stay away from home, then you might have a reason to be worried. Another sign is spending too much time on the phone or computer when this wasn’t previously the norm.
When you notice the above warning signs of a cheating spouse and you have your own suspicions fueled by your partner’s behaviour that just doesn’t add up, it is best to get a straight answer and enough evidence for your peace of mind. Contact us at Haywood Hunt and ask about our private investigation services for investigating cheating spouses and infidelity. We may not be able to help you save your marriage but we sure can help save your sanity!